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Schizoid Strategy


"Even when we deeply value ourselves, the anxiety built into finitude will tempt us to find our source of security in some strategy rather than a trust in God" (Cooper, pg. 163). Compulsive attachments and aversions generate a strategy, the actual self, and, motivated by pride, an idealized image, conditions of worth, and beliefs and attitudes. See Idols of the Types.

Remember that this is just a type and that you are not a type.





 

1. Isolation


Compulsive Attachments

Compulsive Aversions

  • solitude
  • isolation
  • being alone
  • solitary pursuits
  • carrying out solo activities
  • keeping one's distance
  • privacy
  • leisure
  • intimacy
  • other people (because they are intrusive)
  • closeness
  • close relationships
  • being encumbered by employment
  • actions by others that represent encroachment
  • close encounters
Strategy: Isolation; "almost always chooses solitary activities." 1


Actual self: isolated


Idealized image: Solitary

"Individuals with the Solitary personality style have small need of companionship and are most comfortable alone." 2


Conditions of worth:

  • solitariness
  • silence
  • contemplativeness
  • recollection


Beliefs and Attitudes:

  • I enjoy doing things more by myself than with other people. 3
  • In many situations, I am better off to be left alone.
  • My privacy is much more important to me than closeness to people.
  • It's better to be alone than to feel "stuck" with other people.
  • Life is less complicated without other people.
  • It is better for me to keep my distance and maintain a low profile.
  • I am a social misfit.




 

2. Self-sufficiency


Compulsive Attachments

Compulsive Aversions

  • autonomy
  • self-sufficiency
  • mobility
  • independence
  • making decisions by oneself
  • not getting involved
  • freedom of action
  • knowledge
  • competency
  • being involved in a group
  • close relationships
  • being encumbered by other people
  • having to share decision making
  • social responsibilities
Strategy: Self-sufficiency; "lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree relatives;" neither desires nor enjoys close relationships, including being part of a family." 1


Actual self: self-sufficient


Idealized image: Independent

"They are self-contained and do not require interaction with others in order to enjoy their experiences or to get on in life." 2


Conditions of worth:

  • independence
  • detachment
  • self-sufficiency
  • self-containment
  • autonomous competency


Beliefs and Attitudes:

  • It is important for me to be free and independent of others. 3
  • I can manage things on my own without anybody's help.
  • I shouldn't confide in others.
  • I can use other people for my own purposes as long as I don't get involved.
  • Relationships are messy and interfere with freedom.
  • Relationships are problematic.



 

2. Detachment


Compulsive Attachments

Compulsive Aversions

  • detachment (freedom from emotions)
  • dispassion
  • experiencing strong emotions
  • showing feelings
  • sharing emotions
Strategy: Detachment; "shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened affectivity." 1


Actual self: detached


Idealized image: Dispassionate

"Solitary men and women are even-tempered, calm, dispassionate, unsentimental, and unflappable." 2


Conditions of worth:

  • sangfroid
  • even-temperedness
  • calmness
  • dispassion
  • imperturbability
  • observation
  • concentration
  • clarity of vision


Beliefs and Attitudes:

  • I am empty inside. 3
  • Life is bland and unfulfilling.



 

4. Self-control


Compulsive Attachments

Compulsive Aversions

  • stoicism
  • asceticism
  • self-control
  • pleasurable activities
Strategy: Self-control; "takes pleasure in few, if any, activities." 1


Actual self: self-controlled


Idealized image: Stoic

"They display an apparent indifference to pain and pleasure." 2


Conditions of worth:

  • stoicism
  • indifference
  • self-control
  • self-mastery


Beliefs and Attitudes:

  • It's best to avoid pleasurable activities. 4



 

5. Autoeroticism


Compulsive Attachments

Compulsive Aversions

  • sexual pleasure
  • sexual experiences with others
Strategy: Autoeroticism; "has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences with another person." 1


Actual self: autoerotic


Idealized image: Continent

"They are not driven by sexual needs. They enjoy sex but will not suffer in its absence." 2


Conditions of worth:

  • continence
  • sexual composure
  • not passionately sexual


Beliefs and Attitudes:

  • Intimate relations with other people are not important to me. 3



 

6. Indifference


Compulsive Attachments

Compulsive Aversions

  • indifference to others' opinions
  • influence of others
Strategy: Indifference; "appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others." 1


Actual self: indifferent


Idealized image: Feet on the ground

"They are unswayed by either praise or criticism and can confidently come to terms with their own behavior." 2


Conditions of worth:

  • sensibility
  • realism
  • practicality


Beliefs and Attitudes:

  • It doesn't matter what other people think of me. 3
  • I am not influenced by others in what I decide to do.
  • I set my own standards and goals for myself.
  • What other people think doesn't matter to me.



The Resignation Solution

Idols of the Types



1. American Psychiatric Association (1994). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders: DSM-IV. 4th ed. Washington: Author.

2. John M. Oldham and Lois B. Morris (1990). The New Personality Self-Portrait: Why You Think, Work, Love, and Act the Way You Do. Rev. ed. New York: Bantam.

3. Aaron T. Beck and Arthur M. Freeman and Associates (1990). Cognitive Therapy of Personality Disorders. New York : Guilford Press.

4. Mine.





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