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Solitary Style according to Oldham and Morris
"The Loner"
- need no one but themselves
- unmoved by the madding crowd
- liberated from the drive to impress and please
- remarkably free of the emotions and involvements that distract so many others
- what they may give up in terms of sentiment and intimacy, they may gain in clarity of vision
- can uncover and record the facts of our existence to which our passions so often blind us
Self
- are self-contained
- are their own truest most trusted companions providing the most important resources they need
- require no one else to:
- guide them
- admire them
- provide emotional sustenance
- entertain them
- share their experiences
- remain separate and find greatest comfort, reassurance, and freedom alone with themselves
- prefer their own company
- like to be alone
- need no one to buttress their self-esteem or to rescue them from boredom
- remarkably free of loneliness
Emotions
- do not experience emotions as intensely as do most others
- are not feelers, emoters
- are imperturbable
- are not feelers but are doers and watchers
- free of the passionate need for others that often cloud our minds, they can stand back and watch the curious things people do
- free of sentimental reverie, they can obs3erve the world around them in strikingly clear focus
- can be highly creative if reclusive, poets, scientists, and intellectuals
Self-Control
- it's hard for them to over-indulge their visceral appetites
- they are protected by their very natures from excesses of human passion
- they have a stoic disregard of pain as well as passion
Relationships
- are more or less indifferent to the emotional ties that bind others together
- have a rather detached interest in people
- need much time to themselves
- as long as no one expects fireworks from them, or a social network outside the family, these nonemotional, nonsentimental, nonromantic, not passionately sexual unions can survive
Work
- can function very well in the work domain:
- get down to work
- concentrate
- don't waste time with personal calls or concerns
- are not easily bored
- self-contained
- do not require a lot of feedback
- can take criticism
- they can put their mind to it without distraction
- ability to observe and collect information
- ability to concentrate in solitude and to be completely comfortable in inner sanctum, is a boon through working life—in creative and scientific exploration, in research, in technological and mechanical work, and in security work in which you are paid to watch and to wait
Real World
- in the ideal solitary world, there are very few people and they go about their business without bothering one another
- create little pockets of solitude around themselves and try to spend as much time in them as them can
John M. Oldham and Lois B. Morris (1990).
The New Personality Self-Portrait: Why You Think, Work, Love, and Act the Way You Do .
Rev. ed. New York: Bantam.
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